I saw this on several sites yesterday. And I was thinking about it today. I was thinking of how horrible things are happening every day in our world. And I was thinking of the bravery evidenced by this young girl, speaking out against evil, wrong-doing, about her parents selling her, an eleven year old girl, to an adult male, not known to her.
Listen to this girl. Listen and think.
I hear my government wants to support rebellion in Syria. Why, I wonder, when so many of those rebels seem to be fundamentalists who believe it its right that a child like this be sold into marriage.
Shame on them.
Nada Al-Ahdal: Salaam
Alaikum. Allah’s mercy and blessings upon you. Hello to you all. I’d
like to thank Mukhtar Al-Sharafi and Amal. I’d like to thank all the
journalist and you as well. It’s true that I ran away from my family. I
can’t live with them anymore. Enough. I want to go live with my uncle.
What about the innocence of childhood? What have the children done
wrong? Why do you marry them off like that?
I managed to solve my problem, but some
innocent children can’t solve theirs, and they might die, commit
suicide, or do whatever comes to mind. They’re just kids. What do they
know? They didn’t have time to study, or anything. It’s not our fault.
I’m not the only one. It can happen to any child. There are many cases
like that. Some children decide to throw themselves into the sea.
They’re dead now. This is not normal for innocent children.
It’s true that I fled to my uncle, but
he wasn’t home. So I called Abd Al-Jabbar to come and get me. Abd
Al-Jabbar sent me a woman to travel with her back to Al-Hudaydah. When
my uncle heard about it all, he came for me. I filed a complaint with
the police against my mother. I told them that I am only 11 years old
and she wants to marry me off.
I would have had no life, no education. Don’t they have any compassion? What kind of upbringing did they get?
[...]
I’m better off dead. I’d rather die. I’d
rather live with my uncle than with these people. They threatened to
kill me if I went to my uncle. What kind of people threaten their
children like that? Would it make you happy to marry me off against my
will? Go ahead and marry me off. I’ll kill myself, just like that. I
won’t go back to live with them. I won’t.
They have killed our dreams. They have
killed everything inside us. There’s nothing left. This is no
upbringing. This is criminal, simply criminal.
[...]
My maternal aunt was 14 years old. She
lasted one year with her husband, and she poured gasoline over herself
and set herself on fire. She died. He would beat her with metal
[chains]. He would get drunk. Would it make you happy to marry me off?!
[...]
My mother, my family, believe me when I say: I’m done with you. You’ve ruined my dreams.
The Yemen Post says the girl is a fantasist, and her parents did not have any plan to sell her in marriage. Her uncle says this is the second time her mother took money from a suitor living in another country, in return for betrothal to Nada, her uncle says the first time she was ten years and three months old.
That's okay, according to Islam, the prophet married a six year-old and was considerate enough to wait until she was nine years old to consummate the marriage. And if he did it, well that means it's okay.
I am the grit in the gears, the missing bolt, I am the poker of sticks into spokes. I like to know how things work, but sometimes when I take them apart and rebuild them, I have a few pieces left over. I am a man, so I tend to leave reading the instructions until after it goes wrong. And like all men I have a comprehensive mental map of the world and never need to ask directions. I never get lost, only sometimes I'm late, or end up in the wrong place entirely. It's what we do.
Tuesday, 23 July 2013
Saturday, 20 July 2013
This is One For Dave Who No Longer Mows Grass, But Runs a Lot.
Hey Dave! Here in good old Britannia, we love a good mower.
Our grass grows quickly after the rain, so we need....
Our grass grows quickly after the rain, so we need....
Sunday, 14 July 2013
Stupid Drivers.
I built these planters about four years ago. This one, in particular, keeps getting bashed, and this week someone really whacked it.
Not exactly invisible, with a silver-birch tree rising to about 8' above the gravel. I'd like to whack the person who did this about the head with a length of 4X2.
I've put it back together with several big steel bolts through the corners, tougher than the original coach-screws. But what I'd really like to do is to stick big steel tyre-ripper spikes in the ends. The company chairman says no. Can I put a microswitch in, that sets off a loud screaming?
Rolling Electric!
On friday, I had a drive in a Renault Twizy.
A French-built electric... car? well, car seems a bit of an exaggeration, it's more like a four-wheeled electric scooter, classed, legally here, due to its low weight as a "Quadricycle".
Renault make several electric vehicles, a van, the electric Kangoo, a small car, the Zoe, and a midsize called the Fluence.
But then there's this little strange thing, called the Twizy. It's designed as an urban commuter, short distance, not fast. Range? About fifty miles. Top speed? Fifty miles per hour. It can carry two people, one passenger, behind the driver, preferably not too big a passenger. The 'doors' are an optional extra. more cosmetic than actual, there are no side windows, and, other than the passenger seat, no storage. So, if you're on a mission to the supermarket, don't overfill the trolley (cart).
One of our onsite companies sells solar panels and related items, and we recently fitted an electric vehicle charging point in our carpark.
They're taking various electric vehicles out to county shows and, while this was on site, I was offered a test drive. I'm a gearhead, am I going to say no?
Obviously, I couldn't film my test drive, so here's my co-worker, and a fearful passenger.
As you can imagine, people tend to stop and stare, because most of us have never seen a gadget like this out in the real world.
Don't think of it as a car, because it's not. Practical? Not yet, I'd say.More range, and a bit more luggage room. Here in britain we get rain, sleet, snow, and inclement weather. As an alternative to walking, it's pretty good, but as an alternative to a weather-sealed car, with heater, radio, etc? Not so much.
A French-built electric... car? well, car seems a bit of an exaggeration, it's more like a four-wheeled electric scooter, classed, legally here, due to its low weight as a "Quadricycle".
Renault make several electric vehicles, a van, the electric Kangoo, a small car, the Zoe, and a midsize called the Fluence.
But then there's this little strange thing, called the Twizy. It's designed as an urban commuter, short distance, not fast. Range? About fifty miles. Top speed? Fifty miles per hour. It can carry two people, one passenger, behind the driver, preferably not too big a passenger. The 'doors' are an optional extra. more cosmetic than actual, there are no side windows, and, other than the passenger seat, no storage. So, if you're on a mission to the supermarket, don't overfill the trolley (cart).
One of our onsite companies sells solar panels and related items, and we recently fitted an electric vehicle charging point in our carpark.
They're taking various electric vehicles out to county shows and, while this was on site, I was offered a test drive. I'm a gearhead, am I going to say no?
Obviously, I couldn't film my test drive, so here's my co-worker, and a fearful passenger.
As you can imagine, people tend to stop and stare, because most of us have never seen a gadget like this out in the real world.
Don't think of it as a car, because it's not. Practical? Not yet, I'd say.More range, and a bit more luggage room. Here in britain we get rain, sleet, snow, and inclement weather. As an alternative to walking, it's pretty good, but as an alternative to a weather-sealed car, with heater, radio, etc? Not so much.
Saturday, 6 July 2013
Another Grand Day Out
It being saturday, and I having done nothing whatsoever of note last saturday, indeed all of last weekend, I decided to be less of a sluggard this time with my days off. Consequently, I forced myself out of bed, no saturday lie-in for me... and out on the road. First, I donated a sizeable lump of my wealth to the oil industry in exchange for a tankful of go-juice for my jalopy, then I pointed my compass to the north, raised the mainsail, lashed the tiller, and headed for the horizon.
I'd decided, on a fairly arbitrary whim, to visit Durham. I think the only time I've been to Durham before, was in my student days, when I went to visit an old schoolmate, see a band... I can't recall what band, but it might have been Lindisfarne, and got disgustingly drunk at the ensuing student party. I'm not proud of that. Like most teenagers, I went through a phase when I tried to emulate the other idiots around me, regardless of the fact that I hated being drunk. But hey, it was what you were supposed to do, so I tried my best to enjoy it.
I failed.
Anyway, over the years, I've been past Durham many a time, always on the way somewhere else, I've even passed through the outskirts a few times. It's always been a place I meant to visit, but somehow never did.
Today I decided to put that right. The city of Durham owes its foundation to St Cuthbert.
Cuthbert was born in 635 a.d. in the north-east of England. Although, at that time, there was no such country. Let's say "Cuthbert was born in Northumbria".
During, the Roman occupation of Britain, and after they left, Britain was made up of several kingdoms and tribal fiefdoms, and shortly before Cuthbert's birth, in about 600 a.d., King Aethelfrith of Berenicia joined his kingdom with neighbouring Deira, forming the new Kingdom of Northumbria, which stretched northward from the waters of the Humber estuary to the Firth of Forth in Scotland...
I could tell you more, but I sense that you're yawning, so I won't, I'll just leave you a link, so anyone who wants to know about that era can.
Anyway, young Cuthbert was trained as a warrior, as befitted a young man of his status, but one night, whilst out guarding sheep, he saw "angels ascending to heaven,carrying a soul of great brightness". Or maybe he saw a shooting star, a meteor, and explained it in the only way he could.
The night on which the young christian shepherd-warrior saw his vision, was the night on which the abbot of Lindisfarne, Saint Aidan died. Cuthbert saw it as his calling to become a monk, and so he commenced a new life dedicated to prayer, at the end of his life, he was the master of the community on the island of Lindisfarne, and regarded as the most saintly man in Britain.
He was soon ordained as a saint, and when, some years later, Viking raids on the Lindisfarne monastery became frequent, the monks took up the coffin of their saint, and resolved to carry it to a place of safety, at Chester le Street. The saint's remains rested there some time, before further viking raids drove the monks to take them to the monastery at Ripon.Over two hundred years after his death, he was moved again, Ripon being under attack, so the monks decided to return him to Chester-le-Street. The going was hard though, in wintry weather, struggling across a country with few roads, harried by more attacks. After one particularly exhausting struggle through freezing mud, the monks were about ready to give up, until Saint Cuthbert conveniently appeared to one of them in a vision, and told them he wanted to be buried at 'Dunholm'.
"East of Durham the cart carrying the saint's body stuck fast in the mud
of the road. After three days of fasting and prayer St.Cuthbert
revealed that he wished his shrine to be at Dunholme, a place unknown.
Then it was learned that a great crag in a loop of the River Wear was
the place of the dun cow, lost and found, Here at the east end
St.Cuthbert was buried exactly where the dun cow had been found at rest,
and here was built the present Durham Cathedral Pilgrims to the
shrine attested miracles and each All Saint's Day the body was revealed,
yet incorrupt."
(the incorrupt bit: for those of us not altogether familiar with how to identify a genuine saint, one easy way is to remember, saints don't rot. Other dead people go stinky, and end up as skeletons, but saints just lie there, all pink and soft, as if they're just taking a nap. And they smell of flowers, or aerosol air freshener, it's called 'The Odour of Sanctity'. I mean, they already knew he was a saint, but him not decomposing proved it to everyone.)
Let's digress a moment, as I did. I digressed in my route north, zigzagging through small villages, back roads and farm tracks, and passed through a little place called Shildon.
I also saw signs pointing to an attraction called 'Locomotion'. However, I passed through the village, and was turning out onto the Durham road when my brain eventually got around to telling me what I knew about Shildon. Coal mines. And railways. Horse-hauled rail wagons. Birth of the steam locomotive, but.... Ah yes, Shildon, the first ever PASSENGER train set off from Shildon in.... 1825. Hauled by "Locomotion No.1".
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So I turned around. Went to look for that sign, followed it to the shiny new shed of the National Railway Museum's Shildon Annex. See those parallel lines? Rail tracks into the building.
And it's full of bustle, because there's a model-railway fair going on, lots of sellers of shiny new and battered old rail stuff, model cars, aircraft, books, photos, posters. I'm not a model rail person, I like to look, but I don't want one. It reminds me of being a kid, in a good way. I like to see the work that people put into their attempts to recreate tiny worlds of the past.
What I like most of all is the real thing, real locos of the past.
Remember this stripy beast? I've photographed it before, at the NRM's main museum in York. The collection moves around.
Duchess of Hamilton streamline display at York.
Bored yet?
One of the world's very first passenger rail carriages. Clearly showing its relationship to horse-drawn stagecoaches. This one has a luggage rack on top, where third class passengers also travelled.
I'll post this now, and add more, because the Red Dirt Girl wants to see it. Be patient, its one in the morning here in the future.
So then I went to Durham. And Durham had a street Brass-Band festival going, which was great fun, so, before I get back to Cuthbert, here's a few minutes of slightly wobbly fun.
So, Cuthbert? Dunholm, Dunholm grew, a church was built over his tomb, then, the Normans arrived. They'd defeated Harold, King of England, not least because poor old Harold, knowing the Normans were poised to attack, and readying an invasion fleet, was informed that a huge force of vikings under Harald Hardrada and Tostig Godwinson, strengthened by a large number of Scots, and was advancing toward York, King Harold marched his army 185 miles in just four days, met the vikings at Stamford Bridge, and defeated them in a very hard-fought, bloody battle.
Harold left a small band of warriors to secure the area, and turned about marching his exhausted, wounded, depleted army the length of England, just in time to meet the Normans at Senlac Field, outside Hastings.
The Normans were a disciplined, tightly drilled, excellently equipped army, well supplied, and ready to fight. The battle was close, and in the end, a Norman tactical ruse won the day. That and an arrow striking Harold in the eye.
Maybe if there had been no earlier carnage, no long fast marching, the outcome would have been different. As it was, William, Duke of Normandy, also known as William the Bastard, became, on that day, in 1066, William the Conqueror, and King William I of England.
His first acts were to send soldiers to secure his new kingdom, and to put down rebels, bloodily, to build strongholds in all the regions. This meant castles, and of course, hearts and minds, if you're the conquering army, you need to control a hostile populace. If you can assure the populace that god is on your side, and that god requires their obedience to their new overlords, then you truly hold the reins of power. William and his barons were great churchbuilders. And, in Durham, they had a steep hill, protected on three sides by a river, on the summit, they had one of England's most revered saints, a church, a place of pilgrimage. William appointed a Norman, William de Carilef, as prince-bishop of Durham, and it was he who commenced building a great new cathedral over Cuthbert's remains.
There's no doubt, the Cathedral, and the castle together at the top of the hill, are a tremendous statement of power, and Durham is one of Europe's greatest cathedrals, whose significance is recognised by UNESCO as a World Heritage Site.
This aerial view is not my picture.
The Cathedral does not permit photography inside. I will steal pictures off the internet, because they would not let me take any. I don't know why. There was a photographic exhibition in a chapel of the cathedral. Irony?
I did take a clandestine bit of video, forgetting to hold the phone horizontally, when a choir was practising. There was a Royal School of Church Music Choir event scheduled for later in the day.
I did take a clandestine bit of video, forgetting to hold the phone horizontally, when a choir was practising. There was a Royal School of Church Music Choir event scheduled for later in the day.
In that same chapel is the tomb of The Venerable Bede. Bede. Can you imagine? Bede, 673-735 A.D., monk, historian, translator, the man whose writings shed light into what would otherwise be a lost period of history. The first historian of Britain. I remember, long ago, as a schoolboy, reading a translated excerpt from Bede's history, fascinated that a man from so long ago could speak to me.
“It seems to me that the life of man on earth is like the swift
flight of a single sparrow through the banqueting hall where you are
sitting at dinner on a winter’s day with your captains and counsellors.
In the midst there is a comforting fire to warm the hall. Outside, the
storms of winter rain and snow are raging. This sparrow flies swiftly in
through one window of the hall and out through another. While he is
inside, the bird is safe from the winter storms, but after a few moments
of comfort, he vanishes from sight into the wintry world from which he
came. So man appears on earth for a little while – but of what went
before this life, or what follows, we know nothing.”
Bede was one of St Cuthbert's early teachers. It's fitting that both should share space in the cathedral, though their tombs are at opposite ends of the building.
I'm not religious, but I do have a very real appreciation that this is a sacred space. I'm not sure how to explain it, I have no doubt whatsoever that Bede, Cuthbert, and many others buried in this church were extraordinary people, people whose lives lit the world around them, people whose goodness, beliefs, and steadfast dedication are revered, still, after many centuries.Bede was one of St Cuthbert's early teachers. It's fitting that both should share space in the cathedral, though their tombs are at opposite ends of the building.
You might call me an atheist, but I'm not sure I want to fly any "ist" as my banner. I try to live my life in the way that I was taught, to be good, true, honest, and tolerant. If there is a god, then if he is the good and all-merciful god (as described in the parts of the bible that don't describe him as a nasty psychotic vindictive god), then I think he'll judge me by my overall behaviour, rather than my adherence to the prayer book. Nobody'll carry me around for two hundred years though, to keep me safe from the vikings.
Cuthbert's Tomb
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Castle Gatehouse
Ha! The nearest you'll get to a self portrait from me!
Amazingly detailed and accurate model.
Data captured from helicopter camera stereoscopic images then digitised and the model produced in sections on a 3D printer. The level of accurate detail is mind-boggling.
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